The wiki provides several options, but the most appropriate seems to breakup using: Remember to save before any console witchcraft, as it can create as many bugs as it fixes. The bug may be specific to the NPC you've chosen. Maramal will then agree to host another ceremony, the next day. If the player misses his Wedding Ceremony, they can approach the intended partner and ask for another chance. That may reset somethings and work it out for your next attempt. Get cold feet and skip the whole ceremony. Since initiating that dialog has fixed the glitch for some folks, owning a home could be key.Īfter the Marriage, the partner will ask where the player wants to live, giving him/her the choice between the partner's house or in The Dragonborn's house, if applicable. It's possible you are not given the 'Where do you want to live' dialog if you don't own a house. A few things I'd suggest:īe sure to own a house before re-attempting the marriage. As with any such bugs, it may end up that console commands are your only way out. There are fairly detailed guide here that provides a few details that may help you. This can be solved if you quickly leave the ceremony and initiate the conversation with your spouse about where you should live. Marriage Ceremony: During your marriage ceremony, after your spouse gives his/her vows, they will sometimes randomly leave the temple while Maramal is still talking, and will disappear, not to be found anywhere. As you point out, it seems you are not alone.

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